I always wanted to find someone better after the break up someone more beautiful more understand and more everything basically. But I realised I wanted to find someone better not for a better relationship in the future but to prove to myself I can do better which in my opinion is a unhealthy way of looking at it what you guys think??
Last updated on:2025-09-15T23:33:02+05:30
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looks like you’re more trying to fix your ego than your heart, i did that once, just ended up noticing the pattern not the person
i get that i remember feeling the same way wanting to prove i deserved more instead of actually feeling it it sucked but i saw it happening
i did that too chasing someone “better” felt like scoring points against myself just made everything emptier
but how does one stop themselves from comparing the present from the past??