And he did, finally. I'm feeling extremely lonely and empty now but I'm glad it's over. I'll never be able to reach out to him again. It's over. I don't have to count the no-contact days anymore because we will never connect again
Last updated on:2025-10-02T07:48:42+05:30
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it sounds like you were holding on for a long time. what’s the hardest part for you right now — the loneliness, or the finality of knowing it’s really over?
I think loneliness. I don't want to see him anymore
That is impressive. I couldn't imagine myself handling the pain when that happens to me. It's like I'm selfish for wanting to move on but I still want to feel that he still wants me back even though I know to myself that I won't anymore .
It's not selfish for moving on. You're not letting anyone down for moving on, you just realize that you don't deserve such a situation
when that emptiness hits, i try to fill my days with tiny things that feel like me. even just going on walks or journaling. it doesn’t erase the pain, but it stops me from spiraling.
Yes I think about a lot of things I can do to fill this emptiness, things I missed out because I put all my focus on him. Today I got to reconnect with one of my hobbies again and was able to spend a long time with it without worrying about him
I blocked him on everything then he emailed me lol I didnt respond.
i remember when my ex finally cut things off too. i was wrecked for a while but also weirdly relieved, like i could finally stop waiting for the next text that never came. it’s so heavy at first but it does start to feel lighter. ❤️
At first he refused to block me, saying he would just leave me alone like this. I had to repeatedly kick his ego until he did it. I think he just wanted to leave the door open because he knew I would go back to him
@LoveLoom489 I felt this. This is us rn.
So proud of you stranger