this is me trying.

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ive been in a sticky relationship. he was married but it was over. got the approval of the mrs before we jumped in the relationship, it was a real good relationship. perfect chemisty, like my soulmate. he managed to make it work with the kids and all for a time. but the mrs got all bitter months after. so stepped back but now he keeps coming back. now im stuck in a never ending loop. god knows im trying, shouldnt have done this in the first place. how do i move forward

Last updated on:2025-10-05T21:58:10+05:30

Comments (6)

Jeoliva
Jeoliva 10 mths ago

are you still hoping he’ll fully commit to you, or do you feel it’s time to fully let go?

Sugarplum
Sugarplum 10 mths ago

im still hoping. and i want to stop hoping i just dont know how

ZEEnext
ZEEnext 10 mths ago

honestly the only way forward is to set clear boundaries for yourself, even if it hurts. repeated comebacks are a trap, trust me.

Sugarplum
Sugarplum 10 mths ago

its hard to even process. i dont know where to put my emotions because at the end of it all, is it even valid? im trapped idk its like a crazy compulsion

othegoat
othegoat 10 mths ago

i’ve been in that kind of messy loop too 😭 it feels like your heart’s stuck on repeat. took me MONTHS to finally step away and it still stings sometimes.

Sugarplum
Sugarplum 10 mths ago

please tell me how!!