he reached out today. said he's moving to Germany and he wants to see me last time obviously I refused but it kinda feels empty because we were more than just boyfriend and girlfriend. it feels like losing a best friend. he was so toxic in our relationship but I just can't get over him. what should I do?
Last updated on:2025-10-05T14:07:58+05:30
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how long has it been since the breakup? do you still talk at all, or is it mostly memories that hit you?
it's been a month whenever I blocked him he reached out to me so I couldn't let go we're still talking but he's leaving today.
i know it’s tempting to see him “one last time,” but staying firm on boundaries helped me actually start healing. distance can be your friend here.
i went through the same when my ex moved away. even when he was toxic, losing that connection hurts so much. it’s normal to feel torn.
if I was in your position I would have said yes to meeting for a last time to get a closure. but with some boundaries stablished.
but that’s your decision, only you know how toxic he was.
I did I feel better even tough it still hurts that bound between us over now it hurts me so much but at least I got to see him one last time. he's leaving tomorrow I'm trying so hard to hold back my tears
@semiray don’t hold them back. cry if you need to. you will feel a relief