She left me on septembre 29th and sent me this message 3 days ago (6th oct.). I m french, hope my translation is ok...
Hi, just wanted to let you know I’m thinking of you and I didn’t want to go through today without sending a message… I hope you’re doing okay. (Of course, no need to reply if you don’t want to.)
I didn't reply yet. Should I ?
Last updated on:2025-10-13T21:01:39+05:30
Comments (6)
do you feel like you want to reply because you still care, or because part of you is hoping she’ll come back?
Honestly ? Both
But too late now, it's almost been a week...
if you’re unsure, wait till you’re calm. you don’t owe an instant reply. sometimes just sitting with the message for a day or two helps you see what you actually want to do
well, it's been 5 days and I didn't reply.
I'll contact her once I'm able to think about her without crying...
i’ve been in that exact spot. my ex reached out a week after ending things and it completely messed with my head again. sometimes silence says more than any text could
I think you should but be casual don't tell her you are thinking about her jus' reply the message to the message that's all.