We cant be together because she claims she can't be "that person" for me. plus I would have to make some major changes in my life in order to make it work. I let her go today I feel so broken about it I see her face everywhere I go. I just want this pain to go away and things to go back to normal without her
Last updated on:2025-10-28T08:30:16+05:30
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mine really couldn't be what I need and I'm still crushed đź’”. I can't change ,she can't change heart breaking eather way
when she said she couldn’t be “that person,” did she explain what she meant? like, was it about emotional stuff, or more about where she’s at in life right now?
it was more like where she's at in life right now
that first stretch after letting someone go feels unbearable, but try not to fight the pain too hard. it’s your heart detoxing. let it ache, cry, write, walk — anything that helps it move through you instead of sitting inside you.
mine told me something similar — that she couldn’t “be what i needed.” it broke me. i used to see her face everywhere too, even in strangers. it’s the worst kind of haunting, but it does fade eventually. slowly, but it does.
It's typical girls Avoidant Attachment issues, while we suffer with Anxious Attachment.....We adjust ourselves for our loved one's & they ain't even try a bit...... it's heavy at first, but slowly slowly life will let yk that why Letting go was far better than holding on ... just trust universe