How to move on
So me and my ex broke up
I feel so bad and lonely and idk everything hurts so bad... buttt him?
Im seeing him enjoying his life partying all night asking for girls numbers...
Idk how can he act this cold
I remember every single thing and I think about him during the day
Im confused if he loved me or not..
whatever When Can I move on
does it take forever to forget him...?
he was my FIRST everything..
Idk MAN it hurts so bad
I cry Almost everynight...
Its been 1 month sience We talked
but I texted him later to
he leaved me on seen
then blocked me on Whatsapp..
comment anything to me pls...
Comments (5)
was the breakup sudden or did you kinda see it coming? just wondering, because sometimes the shock part makes the pain hit even harder.
noo I saw it months ago I knew it wont work out I just wanted him to try harder to work for our relationship but he didnt
my ex did the exact same thing out partying, posting stories like nothing happened while i couldn’t even get out of bed. it messed with my head for months. truth is, people who distract themselves like that are usually running from the pain. i promise it’s not that he cared less, he’s just numbing in a different way.
try to write everything bad about him or redflags that you see in him take your time
reduce your stalking don’t see his party and life this will harm you more
Im just now reading our old messages </3
I've talked to my family sisters and my friend about this break up
yes it made me feel better
but
I started to talk to one of my "friend" its a boy
and now Idk it feels so wrong bc
I feel like Im using him just to feel little better
and honestly it feels like cheating even tho we are single but idk
You were the one that lived through those moments, you know he loved you. He's doing everything he can to push down the loneliness and sadness he feels like partying, going out with freinds, rebounds. I guarantee you hes hurting just as much as you, just in a different way.
what should I do To move on?
@RazzFlex965
ive honestly been really struggling as well and I probably dont have the best advice. For myself, im not worrying about moving on quiet yet, im focusing on acceptance and feeling the pain of loosing him. when you're ready to move on take that step but dont rush yourself. I recommend just feeling all your emotions cry let it out, write out your feelings and then do something that makes you happy like eating a favorite food or watch a comfort show. Self affirmations have really helped me, just telling yourself you will be okay even if it doesn't feel like that right now. There was a life before him and there will be a life after him. im here for u girl if u need anything ik what ur going through and im truly so sorry ❤️