I thought us not speaking for 5 days would give him time to reflect but it didn't. I called him today to ask if he's made up his mind about us and he blocked me as i was calling him. I guess this is my cue to leave and stop waiting. It's clear he doesn't want me anymore and that's okay 💔.
I believe this is the closure i needed.
Last updated on:2025-11-18T01:21:57+05:30
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what was going through your head right before you called? l
"What if i call and he's with someone else, i was in panic mode.
when someone answers your vulnerability with a block, i’ve learned it’s usually my sign to stop trying. it sucks, but pulling back and letting the silence stay silent has always helped me find my footing again.
i had an ex do the same thing, like i finally reached out hoping for some clarity and he blocked me mid-call. that moment hits like a punch in the chest. i’m proud of you for seeing it for what it is, even if it stings like hell right now
maybe give NC more time. I’ve heard that it takes months for people to reflect and really see if they want to come back. but it also depends on how they deal with their emotions.
yes and even if he still didn't close the door yet give yourself the closure u deserve and its indeed so mean from him to block u he didn't want to face you or take a direct decision 🤔