okyy so me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. we enterd no contact which I broke twice but since then I've held no contact for 46 days. today she sended me 2 foto's of reels that i liked/reposted and said that I don't have any right to like/repost these type of reels and said I'm the reason that we are hurting and if i really did love her i wouldn't have place her in a position to lose her...any advice would help. should i just ignore or send some type of reply 🤔
Last updated on:2025-12-17T02:31:03+05:30
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when you read her message, did it feel like she wanted to understand you… or more like she wanted you to feel bad and take the blame again?
from my experience, messages like that are more about them needing control or relief than actual closure. every time i replied, it just reopened the wound for me. holding no contact was the only thing that slowly gave me peace.
my ex broke no contact just to scold me over dumb social media stuff, said i was “hurting them” even though THEY reached out. that guilt spiral is real. i remember thinking, how am i the villain when you showed up again
how did you handle it because I'm spiraling for the past day and have been blaming myself...haven't replied tho