So I broke no-contact the other day because he was saying he wasn’t good enough for anyone and me being the loving person I am wanted to check in on him. Since then he texted me calling himself a loveless loser because another girl broke his heart within the past few days. I can’t keep putting myself in positions like this so from now on I’m going to ignore him.
Last updated on:2025-12-27T05:09:20+05:30
Comments (5)
have you thought about what keeps pulling you back to him? figuring that out helped me finally stick to no-contact
I know it’s definitely not wanting him back but feeling sorry for him. He has a disability called Frontal Lobe Syndrome and would hit himself around me to the point where I would hold his hands and tell him to quit doing that.
setting boundaries doesn’t make you cold, it protects your heart. ignoring him is tough but it’s the right move for your healing
kept checking on my ex even when it hurt me more. breaking that loop is SO hard but necessary
Yeesh, be careful this sounds like a really slippery slope that could result in him trying to reestablish that connection with you because he doesn't think he can find anybody else, don't let him do it even if you want to because that can get incredibly ugly if you aren't careful.