I still just can't believe it

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we were together for a short time and it turned into long distance quickly everything was good apart from that and I really loved her greatly I was always honest I tried to make her feel good all the time I took her first time as well and this October she just sent me a message a warm and slightly kind but a message that said she needs to focus on herself she maybhave rushed and led by her emotions so just like that she blocked me on everything. I don't get it if she really loved me how can she go from I love you to blocking and never hearing from me again. Apparently she cares according to AI but I don't get it it's almost 3 months and I still feel in shock I feel like a lie bitch sometimes but I gave her my whole heart and she just closed the door and locked it. goodbye. see ya[not]. the thing I hate the most is I still love her and want a life with her but not this definitely not even sure if I'm cut out for love

Last updated on:2026-01-02T18:43:16+05:30

Comments (4)

cryqueen
cryqueen 10 mths ago

did you get any closure at all before she blocked you?

WavyCloud123
WavyCloud123 10 mths ago

she sent me a paragraph saying sue does need to say that she rushed maybe emotionally she thanked me for all the moments we shared and how I made her feel and she's sorry it ends like this but she needs to focus on herself and she wishes me well with all her soul, which was a nice message but it broke my heart more because she blocked me after that and that's it

Woundhealer
Woundhealer 10 mths ago

man, it hurts like hell but maybe focus on yourself right now. no-contact, little routines for you, do things that make you feel alive again. it helps even if slowly.

darkYstrdy
darkYstrdy 10 mths ago

my ex blocked me suddenly too after a year and i gave everything, thought love meant more. it’s soul-crushing but it’s not your fault.