i should have known he would hurt me because when we got together am the one who approached him ,,, i dont know if he thought i was desperate because of that ,, he was already in a 2 year relationship with another girl i had no idea about that i swear if i had known i would have stayed as far away as possible from him,, and while he was in a 2 year relationship he was also in another few months relationship with another girl i found out last year about that girl she told me he was cheating on her with me and another girl i wish i knew i felt so bad and guilty i wish i knew and when i asked him about it he lied and got angry and disconnected the phone and mind you we were already celebrating 5 years together
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when you look back now, what hurts more, the cheating itself or the way he lied, got angry, and shut you down when you asked?
all of it hurts badly
the guilt faded a bit when i finally accepted that lying for 5 years is a CHOICE, not a misunderstanding. i didn’t know either, and not knowing doesn’t make you complicit
approached him first and when everything blew up later, i blamed myself so hard. like maybe he thought i was desperate, maybe i made it easy to lie to me. finding out YEARS in that i was just one piece of a bigger mess messed me up in a way i still can’t fully explain