and I've been feeling so much better about me being broken up with the person I thought was the one for me it does feel better knowing I didn't do anything specifically wrong and neither did she apart from blocking me but I've hot to terms with the fact that maybe we weren't supposed to be and everything is indeed a lessons even if it hurts so don't worry everyone it does get better can't believe 3 months ago I was completely out of it but now I feel like I am able to take on the world again
Last updated on:2026-01-12T04:46:54+05:30
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what do you think helped you most in getting to this place, time, distance, or just finally being kinder to yourself
realising a lot of things that I needed to for example I should not revolve my life around people even if I loved her greatly.
i love how grounded this sounds. for me, letting it be a lesson instead of a failure softened the pain a lot. the strength sneaks up on you when you’re not even looking
it's just about realising life is about so much more than a desirable connection which we all want it depends who we can have it with
i was a wreck at 3 months too, thought i’d never breathe normally again. realizing it wasn’t about me being “not enough” was the turning point. that shift is HUGE
it gives me hope
Very encouraging. Thank you. Keep going.