I feel insecure because he was better at everything.

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I feel like i am not enough. he was popular he was happy , he has a loving family, he has a really fun and interesting life. and I am just I am just a depressed girl who is trying her best to just getting up in morning ..
i feel like he thinks that i am a looser and that i don't deserve him. he never said anything like that . but I don't feel like i was enough for him.

Last updated on:2026-01-21T20:40:05+05:30

Comments (8)

LostEchoes
LostEchoes 10 mths ago

do you think this belief that you weren’t enough came more from how he treated you, or from how you already felt about yourself before him

Veliora838
Veliora838 10 mths ago

I mean I did feel insecure before meeting him but it got really intense with him

usermkj28
usermkj28 10 mths ago

i felt the exact same in my last relationship , your not alone.

Veliora838
Veliora838 10 mths ago

how did you over came it

ColdHue
ColdHue 10 mths ago

i hear so much self-blame in this, and i get it because i’ve done the same.

Veliora838
Veliora838 10 mths ago

how do we overcome this

Adorebeauty
Adorebeauty 10 mths ago

i dated someone who looked so put together and i felt like the sad, heavy one dragging things down. he never called me a loser either, but my brain did it for him. that feeling of not being enough messes with everything

Veliora838
Veliora838 10 mths ago

what should I do ? do you still feel the same?