I'm on thirty days no contact now and I'm starting to feel better...I know now that I was disrespected and mistreated and I didn't deserve that. For anyone going through something similar, it will get better, because you DESERVE better. ❤️
Last updated on:2026-03-23T21:06:58+05:30
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what was the moment that made it finally click for you that you deserved better?
It was no particular moment, I just thought about how I settled for bare minimum and thought it was love when it wasn't... he's the one losing out because I know now he's probably going to repeat the pattern over and over again and end up alone because he doesn't know how to love properly.
honestly staying no contact was the only thing that helped me see things clearly. every time i broke it, i’d slip right back into that old version of myself.
this made me smile a little, i remember hitting that point where it finally clicked like wait… i didn’t deserve any of that. took me a while to see it too.
Thank you for your encouraging post.