Why did she ghost me after we were so close?

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Well She Came back..... started talking with me each & everything....... daily vlogs her selfies & everything...... gossips & all ..... she used to love gossiping with me ... like it was heavenly for her...... but, she then dismantled me..... said I don't love u I was just normally talking?
fuck normally talking?
Daily sharing videos without I asking, daily Gossip sharing?....
Then Out of nowhere she started ghosting me, At the end of the day I'm seeing her story that she went out with her frds...... enjoyed so whole day I was no one to her.... still this happened twice I msged her Twice ... ki how was the day ...
but then I lost it !
I asked her "Am I 'Use & Throw' for ?"
& then she said .... u didn't gave me space in Relationship & even not giving now ... arey wtf all I said was how can I make someone your centre for few days then just ghost him out of nowhere?

Last updated on:2026-03-24T22:20:51+05:30

Comments (6)

lyersbroken
lyersbroken 2 wks ago

you feel like she wanted the comfort and attention without actually wanting you, or did she ever show up for you the same way consistently

huhh
huhh 2 wks ago

CONSISTENTLY....no she was not consistent even when we were in relationship .. she always used to give importance to someone else than me

Redalert
Redalert 2 wks ago

honestly i learned the hard way, when someone says “i was just talking” after acting like that, i take it at face value and step back.

11Noise
11Noise 2 wks ago

i had someone do the same thing, constant texts, sharing everything, making me feel like i mattered, then suddenly i was NOTHING and she called it “just talking.” that switch messes with your head so bad

SnapBuzz123
SnapBuzz123 2 wks ago

give her space. better yet give yourself space to heal from something thats not working for you

BlazeDash374
BlazeDash374 2 wks ago

It is a classic push and push tactic. When it is convenient for her, she will pull you in and use you to vent or talk to. But when things feel better for her, she will push away and discard you. Stop giving her access to you. Block her. You are NOT to be treated like a chew toy.