I gave in and texted him and now he's dating my best friend and she just so happens to be his coworker to and now I can't stop texting him and he told me a few days ago that he still loves me but when we broke up I died my hair black and he hates it so he won't get back with me and the girl he's dating now he loves her more than I think he ever did me and he's mad at me right now and is ignoring every text I send him he opens them but won't respond but I asked him about one of his friends yesterday and he got jealous and I just can't block him because what if he needs someone to talk to and he doesn't have anyone else to talk to but it hurts seeing him happy with her and I don't know what to do.....
Last updated on:2026-04-21T17:31:22+05:30
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how are you bro your final you cool
Uh, if he needs someone to talk to, that's his problem. He can talk to his new girlfriend, your best friend. Do you realize how effed up that is?! If she was really your best friend, she would not be dating your ex. With friends like that, who needs enemies?! You should block him immediately and never look back! He's playing games with you and you deserve better.
2 kids 17years with the same woman, broken relationship, restraining order and she's going full no contact, feelings .... Broken thats all I feel day in day out
If someone won't get back with you for something as superficial as a changed hair colour that says enough about them already.
You obviously have a kind heart for wanting to be there for him ,but you need to give yourself some grace too. This is only going to keep breaking you. You need to focus on yourself.☺️🍃🤍One day you'll receive the kind of love that is unconditional and doesn't make you feel so confused and anxious. But first,find that love within yourself 🌬️
I know the kind of feeling you had so as to give it to text them. 🫂 🫂🫂🫂🫂
you are torturing yourself over and over again by making yourself available to him. He is not there for you and cant even reply back. Stop abandoning yourself. I know it hurts, but he is not treating you right
i had to stop texting even when it felt impossible. every reply or silence kept me hooked, and nothing they said was clear or fair to me.
Girl, reading this makes me really sad for you
Don't you think it's unfair for you to always be available for him while he didn't do the same for you? Not to mention he is mad when you talked about other guy while dating another girl. The whole thing about he didn't want to come back because you died your hair also didn't make sense to me
do you feel like you’re holding on more to what he says or how he’s actually treating you right now?
i was stuck in that loop too, texting someone who moved on while still saying “i love you” and it messed with my head so bad. i kept hoping they’d pick me again
i txt him and i call him too and he doesn’t even answer me i usually have bad thoughts abt not answering me something bad happens or i dont know but im happy cuz he didn’t cuz i will move on
yea me and him have been through a lot witch is part of the reason it hurts so bad