Why does my boyfriend keep his conversations with friends a secret?

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If your boyfriend all the time needs a lot of woman friends around and he chats with them, after you will find out there are secreat comversation and his answer is that he is not gonna tell you next time.. because for him is normal and he doesnt feel to say it and that he is not flirting .
what do you think about it ..
you will want a man doing this staff?

Last updated on:2026-05-21T04:41:32+05:30

Comments (11)

gracefulP
gracefulP 4 days ago

when you try to explain why it hurts you, does he actually listen and try to reassure you or does he just shut the conversation down

Broken123456
Broken123456 4 days ago

he is not listening he wanted to continue doing this staff so he told me that we are not the same and after he send me messege if i need something that he will be here and he love me .. i feel like a shit ..

LiveJoyful791
LiveJoyful791 4 days ago

that's definitely a cheater like my ex

Broken123456
Broken123456 4 days ago

Yes and there is a lot of conversations that i dont know about.. because for him is normal to speak with every woman.. like a woman you feel when something switch.. now he want to be friends to still have acces to me

sakasiru
sakasiru 4 days ago

i don’t think having women friends is the problem. the secrecy is. when someone already knows it would hurt you and their response is basically “i’ll just hide it better next time,” that would break trust for me fast.

Broken123456
Broken123456 4 days ago

Yes.. there were a lot of woman that i dont know about .. just chats without sense and one night i had to see it on my eyes .. we broke up because the problem is me .. he saw it in the different way and he prefer do this then be with me..

stillsad
stillsad 5 days ago

my ex used to say the exact same thing. “it’s normal, i’m not flirting.” meanwhile there were secret chats and little things hidden on purpose. that kind of stuff slowly made me feel crazy and insecure all the time

Broken123456
Broken123456 5 days ago

i dont understand why they need atention from other woman .. and how it could be normal.
Its just make me feel sick… i feel like a crazy and I dont know what is normal anymore

nike
nike 5 days ago

he micro cheating broke up sorry he playboy

Broken123456
Broken123456 5 days ago

yes i broke up, and he told me that the problem is me … that for him is normal to chat with others

nike
nike 4 days ago

@Broken123456 good break btw he gaslighting you say u problem but it's he fault he just jerk .nah not normal chat all that cheat btw good u free from hoe send y hug love u good person u never wrong u right ok take care yourself rest sleep talk friend