Why do they seem okay so soon after we split?

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how is posssible that they move on so fast, still chrom in hey, how are you, after few days after brekup and start to follow woman on instagram after 10 days after breakup and they are doing that they are ok ? this just feel like hell

Last updated on:2026-05-25T02:58:12+05:30

Comments (9)

Moh933
Moh933 4 hrs ago

ugh i remember stalking his following list after our breakup and feeling physically sick every time a new girl popped up. meanwhile i was barely surviving the day.

saderror
saderror 8 hrs ago

when they still text “hey how are you” after moving on that fast, do you feel like they actually miss you or do you think they just miss access to you?

Broken123456
Broken123456 5 hrs ago

my energy …

LazerBoy855
LazerBoy855 9 hrs ago

Thats their character.This is how they live.They just need constant attention from women

Broken123456
Broken123456 5 hrs ago

in relationship and after the same ..

ItsNotEasy
ItsNotEasy yesterday

Dreamy is right. it's just self distraction tactics. Dont take anything they do personally they are also probably trying to find ways to cope.

SpaceGurl91
SpaceGurl91 yesterday

its hard when you still living togyand they were cheating on you emotionally as well this avoidant mf always needed outside reassurance

NitroPulse681
NitroPulse681 2 days ago

some people use validation and attention from others as distraction, it's just how it is , know you can't really control how others feel , only thing you can control is yourself.
I'm really sorry that you have to go trough that, but note that , the more you check on what they're up to , the worse you'll feel , I know from experience. You value more than that. You can do it:)

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 2 days ago

I dont think they move on, they just distract themselves from the feelings