hey all i hope you’re doing well, I want to wish a happy birthday for my ex “discarded me from 4 months” and i went no contact but i know she’s so coward to reach me first.. also she’s avoidant..
Any way, i want also to tell her that i will be in her city in the end of the month “tbh i will be in her hometown then in our city so this also i need advice to give a detail or not and hope that she’s ok… just like that.. so what do you think
Last updated on:2026-05-26T13:20:22+05:30
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if she replied cold or didn’t answer at all, do you think you’d actually be okay after sending it or would it reopen everything for you again
thank you for this hard question, to be honest i’m still healing but in the last step of that.. also i accept the point that i love this person but we will not be together.. i can’t say i will not care or like that because i really don’t know.. i learned a lot of stuff during no contact and specifically how to detach from anything also i think this will be my last time that i will reach for her.. and because of that i asked how to act because usually i said whole things directly or even don’t do the no contact.. but with this person it was different so much
but i hope really everything go well..
if you really want to break no contact, start with the happy birthday message and see if communication opens up