Should i wait for him or move on?

hi guys. going through a breakup as of today and its his me harder than i thought it would. he said to me that maybe in the future he might change how he feels about me but he may not. i dont know wether to wait for him or let him go because i really love him but idk how long it will take him

Last updated on:2026-06-09T17:36:12+05:30

Comments (7)

cryeye
cryeye 3 days ago

if the relationship was over, even while part of me still loved her. if she ever came back, she could find me moving forward instead of waiting in the same spot.

UNIunicorn
UNIunicorn 3 days ago

you feel like he genuinely needs time, or does it feel more like he doesn't want to fully let you go while he figures out what he wants?

VibeNest411
VibeNest411 3 days ago

Going through the same shit😭the worst part is that I’m waiting,it’s been 2months😭

Aniesha
Aniesha 3 days ago

no honey! you can't wait for someone who is unsure of you because what it you wait for 2 years and they still don't chose you. baby don't cheat yourself out of the chance to have a happy and healthy relationship..I know it's hard but you deserve better. You got this pal

heartthreft
heartthreft 3 days ago

hearing almost those exact words. "maybe someday" kept me emotionally stuck for months because i treated a possibility like a promise. that limbo hurt more than the breakup itself

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 3 days ago

please do not wait for him. This is the most hurtful breakup you can go through, because he is giving you a sense of hope with no time frame. Time to work on yourself, then if he comes back, hes just interrupting your work, if he doesnt come back, then you are already moving through it.

DriftSnap306
DriftSnap306 3 days ago

going through the same thing rn and it’s very hard to choose