Okay this is a long one so I appreciate it if you read it all. Last week I lost my phone and had to start using an old one. I downloaded whatsapp and discovered old messages from me and my ex. I should have just deleted them straight away but I decided to take a trip down memory lane. Awkwardly I sent an accidental voice note but deleted it straight away. I was using a temp number and my ex blocked my original number. I didn't explain myself and thought it did not need a follow up. I just put it to the back off my mind. A few hours went by and then I received a very threatening message from a guy I do not know telling me to leave my ex alone. I rolled my eyes at it and did not bother replying. I did some digging though and discovered this person has a partner and children so its not my exs new boyfriend. Anyway a few minutes after I received that message my ex changed her whatsapp dp. Was she trying to get a reaction out of me?
I feel that if she had genuinely moved on she could have messaged me herself or simply just ignore it all together like I hoped for. After a day or two she then blocked that number also.
Am I overthinking or not?
I just need some advice
Last updated on:2026-06-17T16:10:33+05:30
Comments (2)
sounds like she doesn’t want to be contact and doesn’t want to have that discussion with you herself as she wants no contact
I think it just means she doesn’t want to be contacted