Did my avoidant ex ever come back after no contact?

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Did your avoidant ex ever come back after no contact even after saying they didn't like you anymore? I'm not saying I will be waiting but I'm curious

Last updated on:2026-06-16T19:15:06+05:30

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bronto
bronto 23 hrs ago

my avoidant ex swore he was done, said his feelings were gone, then popped back up months later like none of it had happened. him coming back didn't change the hurt he left behind though.

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 22 hrs ago

Yeah I get that but I think I'm lucky my ex has always been respectful so I'm not really hurt I'm just sad

mindsoul
mindsoul yesterday

i learned that whether they come back or not isn't always the part that matters.

Strong15
Strong15 yesterday

if they texted you tomorrow saying they wanted to talk, would you actually want them back, or do you just want answers for how everything ended?

Inotnoya
Inotnoya yesterday

Yeah I would like him back but not now I still need to work on myself

Louiseanne
Louiseanne 2 days ago

I’m at four weeks nearly and mine never came back

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 2 days ago

Thats actually horrible but I hope you're healing ❤️ my ex said he wanted to stay friends at least so yeah

Louiseanne
Louiseanne 2 days ago

@Inotnoya staying friends I don’t recommend until you have healed, my ex is odd he’s unblocking me and I sent a message on viber and he’s not been online but jumped on straight away when he had the message. he’s still ignoring me unfortunately but I think he’s checking my stuff

Inotnoya
Inotnoya yesterday

@Louiseanne Yeah I know but I mean it'll pass so I'll move on eventually lol

Louiseanne
Louiseanne 21 hrs ago

@Inotnoya yes I have gone through so much up and downs it horrible when you truly love someone it’s the worse feeling in the world one day I will be fine well I hope the thought of him being a distant memory kills me 😭😭