Why can't i get over my ex?

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i thought i can feel better but now i m having dreams of getting back everyday w my 3 yr relationship which ended 3months ago ..the moment i wake up the dreams plays all over again and u get so numb he left me as i meant nothing to him and never tried to reach out again

Last updated on:2026-06-24T04:15:17+05:30

Comments (11)

ItsNotEasy
ItsNotEasy 2 mths ago

I feel the same way and im only maybe a month and a half in. 3yr relationship aswell. I cant get over her but she seems to have gotten over me so fast.

she told her best friend I apparently was a stalker not her boyfriend. so that was a nice touch.


hang in there, it does get better start focusing on yourself. I started going to the gym, told someone and am starting to just feel a little better week by week.

QuietLyric
QuietLyric 2 mths ago

i kept dreaming we got back together and every morning felt like getting dumped all over again. those dreams can be so cruel when your heart still hasn't caught up

NovaBeat759
NovaBeat759 2 mths ago

ikrr

utterific
utterific 2 mths ago

i've been there, and one thing that helped me was reminding myself that dreams aren't messages or signs. for me they were just all the hope and hurt looking for somewhere to go while i slept.

NovaBeat759
NovaBeat759 2 mths ago

i always think its a sign😭

DueForm4
DueForm4 2 mths ago

three months is still so fresh after a 3 year relationship. i'm wondering, was the breakup completely out of nowhere, or did you see it coming before he left?

NovaBeat759
NovaBeat759 2 mths ago

i did not see we had a small fight and he said he lost feelings which felt so untrue we had plans of marrying

DriftRay387
DriftRay387 2 mths ago

stay away from social media and platforms that remind you of him. build distance so your mind can let go.

NovaBeat759
NovaBeat759 2 mths ago

the urges doesnt stop me

goshimisshim
goshimisshim 2 mths ago

i feel the same it will be hard but we can all help each other

NovaBeat759
NovaBeat759 2 mths ago

i hate feelings sm