I know I asked for the no contact because she kept texting me and calling me about other stuff or sending a real and saying I miss you terribly but nothing about getting back together. everyday something to keep me there but nothing real. I told her 3 days ago if you don’t want me back she kept saying not now not on your (mine) terms. I told her I have no terms I want this to work. I want us to try again but she won’t for now. I said don’t text or call me until you want to try again. and now of course I am miserable no calls nothing. after all these years and the reason for the break up is not us it’s external money issues and work stuff. I feel so helpless I want to tell her I miss her and to ask again to try again but I know she won’t.
Last updated on:2026-06-19T21:18:56+05:30
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my ex kept saying he missed me and wanted me in his life, but every time i asked if we were actually working on us, there was always another reason to wait. those mixed signals kept me stuck for months.
yes it appears we are in the same situation they need someone to talk to but don’t want to be with me anymore
i think you did something really brave. i had to stop accepting crumbs too. hearing nothing hurts like hell at first, but constantly hearing "i miss you" without any real action hurt me even more.
thank you yes nothing hurts as well but false hope is also not ideal
what would need to change for her to try again, or does it always stay vague?
she doesn’t want to change anything right now doesn’t want to try so she leaves it open.
he is just breadcrumbing you .delete the app where he tries to message you
can’t delete the app as we have some business together however will stop answering. no more false hope. maybe I should start seeing what I am worth.