Why i sent a birthday text to my ex

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I send happy birthday.

force of habit. birthdays were always important.

got no reply. it’s really over and I can’t deal with it but I promise not to text them and try to survive.

after all I am dramatic but it is so hard for me.

anyways I really hope I keep up all this is killing me.

Last updated on:2026-06-24T13:22:44+05:30

Comments (7)

goforkyo
goforkyo 2 mths ago

are you more upset that they didn't reply, or that the no reply made it feel final in a way you hadn't fully accepted before?

SweetAndBubbly951

you’re not dramatic just your heart hoping he still cares but harsh truth he doesn’t u will get better let him go

poundcaker
poundcaker 2 mths ago

just hope time will make me realize that they don’t care.

nike
nike 2 mths ago

it's ok I just be nice polite u alrdy do u best I'm proud of you. I also text my ex gf happy birthday she reply next day thank you only it's hurt but have accepted reality. this year I will not text her birthday anymore

poundcaker
poundcaker 2 mths ago

I wish I was a bit later in my process. everything still hurts too much.

LLondon
LLondon 2 mths ago

i sent a birthday text once too, convinced it was just being polite, but deep down i think i was hoping for some tiny sign that we still mattered to each other. getting nothing back HURT way more than i expected.

poundcaker
poundcaker 2 mths ago

yeah we all want something back unfortunately. next year I won’t text haha