I've been much better lately and started loving spending time on my own, but i've talked to a friend and he told me something that made me think.
Long story-short i've been with my ex gf for 17 months and helped her much and been good to her, she left me saying that the reason was she was overwhelmed which i don't believe. She made me promises that she won't pretty much enter "hoe phase" which she did really soon after breaking up with me.
Now the question is did i ever matter to her or just the things that i did for her and will she ever regret leaving me or think about me later?
My friend made a point saying that women always find "better, richer, more mascular" and etc and that she won't be thinking about me ever or regret even if i literally poured my soul into relationship. Do women ever think about their exes or regret it and if so why?
Not sure what to think i hope the best for her but i didn't deserve any of this especially during the hardest part of my life when i needed support.
Last updated on:2026-06-27T17:52:11+05:30
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i've been where you are, asking myself if i mattered or if i was just useful. that question haunted me for months. looking back, i know i mattered, the relationship just still ended, and both things can be true.
my best advice is don't let your friend's view of women become the story you carry. i spent way too much time trying to predict whether my ex would regret leaving instead of noticing i was finally starting to feel like myself again
You're so right i have thought that but still a part of me would like to know does karma exist and does everything come back
do you think you're hoping she'll regret it because you still want her back, or because you want proof that what you gave her was real?
i don't want her back and wouldn't take her back ever, i just want karma to do what it has to because this was the hardest part of my life and she just went on with her life like nothing happened.
at the end of the day you mattered to you. I don’t know for sure if she cared for you only she knows that. you did nothing wrong and at time you’ll it’s nothing to regret.
i don't regret anything, especially after knowing that i really made her life better and that matters to me the most.
I really wish to all people only the best but i can't comprehend that someone can maybe use you and leave without feeling any regrets after all of the plans for the future and all of the plans for future.
I could say that i began to move on but i can't get myself to trust anyone else or view anyone else the way that i viewed her or to give my soul to anyone else like i did for her because nothing is guaranteed at the end.
Is it that hard to just respect and love someone and be sincere about feelings.
@BraveSpirit745 i just saw that i said the plans for the future twice, sorry for inconvinience i had a few drinks, but i guess that you get what i said. Lots of love and hope the best for you.
@BraveSpirit745 I hope you’re doing well. just know I know how you feel it just sucks