this break up broke me i can’t do this anymore I can’t deal with the pain anymore.
i see no way out all the future holds is dept in my name
and the last time they looked at me I don’t wish that on anyone
I can’t do this anymore and they do not care at all
this is brutal.
I’m even afraid since I blocked them
Last updated on:2026-06-28T20:36:24+05:30
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I get it. my ex completely does not care and I really dont think they ever did care if I was in their life or not. in this situation...document everything. if their is any email, texts, messages on social and voicemails...screenshot, download, save, whaterver...just document. maje sure only reaping is that you do not want anymore cobtact. send it once and don't go back on it. get a journal and write whenever you feel weak or no one is around to talk to. set a daily routine. and yea, sometimes you gotta go hour by hour. you focus on the routine and not them. eventually the hope is that they are not even a thought in daily routine because your more focused on the routine and not them at all. sometimes we have to force ourselves to remember the bad to move on. I know its hard. but you are remembering a version of them that does not exist because they showed who they truly are. dont romanticize the potential, only remembering the reality. easier said than done but that is all what we are trying to do on this app. heal.
I’m starting to focus more on old the negatives and yes I have been noting things down and sharing info to my friends so I get feedback and understand I am not a bad person
i blocked my ex, convinced i'd made everything worse. i hadn't. i was just in the part where every minute felt impossible. i really hope you're talking to someone you trust, not just us
I blocked them too it’s a bit scary today I’m a bit better I have some people to talk to but they are not always available. I was made the bad guy and I can’t believe they see me like this after everything. it’s just the unfairness I can’t deal with and I don’t think anyone deserves to be treated like this even monsters don’t.
i know it feels like they don't care, and that thought can swallow you whole. what got me through was making it one hour at a time instead of trying to survive the rest of my life.
I know that but even that is so painfull
are you with someone safe right now, or is there a friend or family member you can stay in touch with tonight?
no I have no one