Good news and bad news. The good news is that I’m starting to forget my ex after 4 years of thinking about him 24/7. Bad news is that the new guy I was seeing (that I started to really like) just told me he isn’t interested anymore. Now, I’ve been double dumped and have two guys on my mind these days. Any tips to get over the newly fresh pain and forget them both?
Last updated on:2026-07-02T17:33:12+05:30
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that's such a rough combo. what helped me was reminding myself the new rejection made my old heartbreak feel louder than it actually was. i tried really hard not to compare either of them to the future i hadn't met yet.
do you think you're missing your ex again, or did this new rejection just bring back all the feelings you thought you'd finally escaped?
i finally started letting go of my long-term ex, then the first person i opened my heart to left too. it felt like the old wound got ripped open all over again, even though they were two different people.
That's tricky. I would say if your heart was still pining over your ex, maybe he picked up on it?