I spend 4 yesrs deeply loving him. But after getting to konw him much better I realised I dont wanna be with Someone like him 💔
I am realizing how emotionally wounded he must be on so many levels to behave like this 😔It breaks me to realize this about him💔😭
I talked to him. he is seeing a therapist and a support Group. We broke up and cancelled out wedding. I still love him and desire is there though 😭
Last updated on:2026-07-10T18:33:42+05:30
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i loved someone so deeply, then i finally saw the wounds they were carrying and suddenly my heart was grieving the relationship and them at the same time. that HURT. 💔
yes, this hurts bad and deep. It kills me to see the reality of him so wounded and defeated and accept it
My love didnt heal him and he didnt wanted to be healed. He thought that of he hides it then it wont hurt us but relationships dont work that way 💔
it says a lot that you can still care about him and know the wedding had to end. when i was in that place, i had to stop asking if i loved them and start asking if i could actually build a peaceful life with him.
I will always care for him but I dont see myself building a peaceful life with him😔I need to accept
my heart hurts reading this. do you think you're missing the man he is today, or the future you both planned together?
I miss him. I just wanna be in his arms, I just wanna stair in his eyes. I do miss our little things we used to do together but I just miss him and being around him. when we said goodbye he hugged me for the last time and I just felt numb. I guess he has broken me and my feelings to the level beyond repair❤️🩹
I sometimes remember out future plans and feel abandoned but the truth is I did chose thai seperation as well
Sometimes, when we stay close to support, we get hurt more. Breaking up with someone doesn't always mean there are bad people; it's just that there are lessons to learn that require different paths. It hurts a lot, and there's no cure for the pain. I hope that with the days to come, you feel better.
This is so true. We learn the most valuable lessons during the difficult times. Keep trying to look for the positives.
thanks