Why do i keep getting mixed signals from him?

I know it seems easy to say I am in the same situation it’s is excruciatingly difficult for me to keep the no contact. but the longer you are in the no contact you’ll start to see oh they don’t actually care. then that hurts again or something else will happen. but the no contact will help.

Leave him alone ! He is not confused he just doesn't love you or even like you for that matter trust me it's a RED FLAG

paying more attention to what he actually DID than what i hoped he meant.

i think a good relationship requires Both partners to be all in 100% and very transparent and vulnerable. If he gives you mixed signals you have 2 choices. you reach out and see if he still wants to work things out or end it for yourself mentally. do not fantasize what could be and move on :) it takes will power but it is very freeing

when you picture the last few weeks, has he actually made a real effort to be with you, or are you mostly hanging onto the moments that gave you hope?

i kept trying to decode every text and every little moment. in the end i realized i was doing all the work while he stayed confusing.

you should try communicating with him! tell him that he’s giving you mixed signals and that you just want him to clairify with you. Asking someone to clairify is a completely normal thing to ask someone.

BraveNJoy800 2 wks ago

I tried alot but there’s no changes when i tell him that what he is doing hurting me he just do it again and again

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go silent. silence reveals what noise hides

BraveNJoy800 2 wks ago

It's hard for me because we've been together for years

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don’t listen to them. it’s usually a way to leave the door open. it’s cruel to say but they can chose you.

BraveNJoy800 2 wks ago

I can’t and idk how

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jakesworld55 2 wks ago

@BraveNJoy800 I feel that I am in a very similar situation myself it's so easy for people to say walk away and stop talking to them and they aren't wrong but I don't know how to

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