my wife and I just ended our marriage after 8 years together for 11 and we are still on speaking terms as a matter of fact I'm still leaving under the same roof but just started sleeping in our spare room but I feel like I'm going insane my emotions are all over the place I don't know what to do I just want to crawl in bed and never get out
Last updated on:2026-07-13T04:41:12+05:30
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that's a LOT to carry. what helped me was getting through one day at a time instead of trying to figure out my whole future while i was still living in the same house
thank you so much I will definitely be trying to take it o e day at a time and not thinking about the future as much all the time thank you for the words of encouragement 😊💜
are you two still sharing meals and spending time together, or are you mostly keeping your distance now?
we are sharing meals and everything else just sleeping separately right now
i slept in the next room from my ex for a while too, and hearing them move around the house messed with my head every single day. i barely recognized myself then.
I ended a 10 year relationship 3 months ago I keep feeling different emotions, some days free, some days so heavy and heartbroken, some days as if I miss it and it keeps changing. i do not feel calm and anxiety hits all the time. does anybody have any advice? it was not working anymore, i was not respected and loved as I was deserved
I wish I had some advice for you my friend it's hard I hope you can find some piece right now I feel that same as you I have good and bad days but I'm anxious wreck all the time 😔
I agree, do you have a mates you can go to for a couple of weeks? You don't have to make any permanent living decisions now, but a bit of space would definitely help your head space and help make your next decisions.
That's really hard. Welcome to the app.
That’s a hard one. If you can find anywhere else to live, that would be beneficial for your mental health and healing journey ❤️🩹
i don't think your wrong 😕😞 but unfortunately her and I both still want to be friends and I can't stand the thought of moving out yet 😔
@SparkFlex492 I can understand that feeling. I was only with my ex for 2 years but I moved to a different country for him. So we continued living together as I had no where to go, but I also couldn't stand the thought of him moving out. even not talking much, just knowing I wasnt in the apartment alone helped. He's living somewhere else now but his stuff is here and its so hard to move on when they are still right there.
@BrightPath390 I'm sorry to hear that but I understand completely it's definitely hard I can't really move on while still here I know but Im not really ready to move out because I still want her, and I'm hoping still she will come back to me, even though I know that very unlikely 💔
@jakesworld55 <hugs it gets better for you> At least, promise yourself to get out and do your own activities
@SoulfulRen I will have been definitely been trying to do more of things outside the house by myself 😔 one step at a time thank you all this app is amazing and Everyone on it 💜