hey guys. ive been going through it! I found out my ex cheated on me , again. Last month. we live together . so for the past month it has been HELL! He went out on my birthday last week with the girl and didn't come back till 4:30am!! never told me happy birthday. we had a big fight . he talks to her on the phone. texts her all day , all ehile I have to watch it all. ive been looking for an apartment , but yesterday he moved out. and I feel SO BROKEN. I know he has done ne so wrong , but I miss him. i never wanted this to happen . I loved him and he had been lying the whole time. we were looking for new apartments together recently and everything. im broken and feel so alone. im in this house we shared alone while he gets to go be free and happy. how could he not care??? how do I let go!??? i woke up at 3am crying
Last updated on:2026-07-15T07:57:28+05:30
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it will hit you eventually that you are also free now and you can move on. you can totally find a better partner who will treat you with the respect you deserve. hang in there.
grieving a relationship that was so long is normal. you do need to let yourself feel some of it to let go.
I am so sorry you are going through this. During my divorce, antidepressants helped me substantially. It will get better.
I started therapy. but lord I need something. because my mental and sadness. I cant eat or sleep . I just keep thinking about him and this other girl. my heart is broken 💔
when you picture him right now, do you miss HIM, or do you miss the future you were building together and losing all at once?
I really do miss him. i miss him coming home. I miss talking to him. i also miss the future we should have. I miss everything and the feeling won't go away. I woke up crying so hard today
stayed with someone who cheated more than once too, and the part that broke me wasn't even the cheating anymore, it was watching them act like i didn't exist.
same. that exact thing is happening to me. like the last 8 years never happened. he has someone new to talk to and hang with. and its like I never existed. as much as I feel and love him and miss him. i could never act like he didnt exist. this is the worse
so sad
going silent! only way you will heal but you have to do it for you and not as a punishment
yes . im just scared because I always give in and go back. I wanna stick to the no contact this time. I dont think he will reach out this time anyways. it feels like this is the final time
@Nicoleee sometimes we have to make decisions with tears in our eyes. At this point what do you have to lose? we have one life you’ll never get this time back. Everytime you want to give in remind yourself why you stepped aside
omg girl you are so strong for all of this !
I dont feel strong at all. ive been completely emotional and broken.