next week marks a year that my whole life change. In hindsight at the time my whole world came to a halt and crashed. I felt emotions I’d never felt before- it was awful. Today I am in such a better place, I’ve moved forward and on reflection I can see he was the problem not me.
I have come so far and am writing this to say “you will get there- one step at a time.. there will be good and very dark days, but you got this.. go to friends, reconnect with people you have in your circle.. true friends will listen and support you.”
It wasn’t meant to be and I’m ok with that, the person I am meant to be with is out there and I’m in no rush to find them- they can find me. Over and out.
Last updated on:2026-07-20T04:15:01+05:30
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i love that you can look back and see the difference between who you were then and who you are now. i had to stop blaming myself for someone else’s choices, and that changed everything for me.
was the first little sign that made you realize you were actually starting to heal and move forward?
I think it was being at piece with the fact that I accept he wasn’t meant for me. It’s true what they say about time helping with healing.
I’m so happy for you, thanks for taking the time to remind us all that we will get to where you are too someday ❤️
thank you so much for this post.
that one year mark after my breakup, it felt like my whole world was frozen while everyone else kept moving. seeing you say you’re finally okay hit me because i’m still proud of myself for making it through those dark days too
Thank you for sharing your experience, strength, and hope. A lot of us need to believe this pain will pass and we’ll be in a new place one day.
Wow. This is very encouraging and helpful to see people in the same situation as me, soon i will hopefully get to be as understanding as you. Thankyou for sharing .
Thank you for sharing this. You just motivated me to keep on going even though it's hard. Maybe one day I will also look back and realize that I was never the problem.
Thankyou for coming back to check in. its so wonderful to hear something positive. I am happy for your healing.