I woke up not thinking about him. That in itself is going to make this a beautiful day🥰. my emotions today are a bit mixed i still have a bit of sadness but I also have a lot of motivation and drive. motivation to start fixing the parts in my life that have been put on the back burner for waay to long. when I am in love I throw myself into bettering their lives whether its financially, emotionally or supporting them to reach the goals they want in life but I never did that for myself, so this time around I am going to be my love interest. I am going to better my life the way I did for others 💖 ✨️ and I wont stop until I get everything I desire and deserve and when they come back begging for a chance and banging on my door he will get the same treatment he gave me complete and utter silence its your turn to make yourself feel like the fool to loose your dignity I am so excited for these next chapters 💖 ✨️
Last updated on:2026-07-21T00:46:19+05:30
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i love that you’re putting that energy back into you. i did the same after my breakup, i stopped asking “how can i make them happy?” and started asking “what do i need today?” that shift changed a lot for me
me too i had a hard time accepting the break up at first and just asking why going crazy but I see now this happened because I needed to learn how to love myself
i spent so much time pouring everything into my ex’s dreams that i forgot i had my own. waking up and realizing your first thought isn’t them anymore feels like getting a little piece of yourself back.
this whole journey is such a roller coaster I started the day high and ended it at an all time low I cried until 3 in the morning but I didnt break no contact and as tiered as I am I woke up better than most days and that is a win for me
what’s the first thing you want to do for yourself that you kept putting off for him
paying off my.debt I could never do it because everytime I tried hed quit his job or something would happen.
your words mean more to me than I could ever express i have been struggling with the fall out of this relationship now that the dust has settled i opened my eye to see all the casualties from this relationship that I thought was good for me truth is I had a blindfold and hurt some people and was struggling with the guilt of who I had become to the people I loved and loved me thank you thank you soo much for your kinds words ❤️🩹
I can say this is huge. you can be really proud of yourself!
Re-read this when you feel down. I know (kinda have a good feeling about you), that you are a good person and it's time to put focus on yourself!