My daughter asked me to reach out to him to get a password for a streaming service he has. Before I wouldve jumped at the chance to unblock him and text him and used the excuse of "well im doing for my daughter",but I didnt I asked her to send him a message from her phone and ask him and explained I couldnt break contact part of me really wanted to but I wouldve relinquished the power I fought soo hard to aquire im starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel🌄 today was such a productive day i hardly thought about him i did catch myself saying out loud how much I miss him. I reached some of the goals I set for myself today,its little progress but its progress and right now holding on to that motivation is what is giving me hope and getting a step closer to the day where I dont think about him at all and be ready to move on 🙌🏽
Last updated on:2026-07-20T18:03:11+05:30
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when you caught yourself saying you missed him today, did it feel different than before, like you were missing him without feeling pulled to go back
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protecting the peace you worked so hard for. i had to learn that missing someone doesn’t mean i need to reach for them, sometimes i just had to let the feeling pass.
I think its the hardest part for me I could literally feel him hugging me and I miss it soo much my heart still aches but going fully no contact has really taken me through it 💔
That is a huge thing. I think its important to set boundaries. you are doing very good!
thank you I cried after posting this the urge to break no contact after this was overwhelming but I resisted even if it hurt me
when i had a reason to text my ex and i used every excuse i could find because i missed him so much. choosing yourself in that moment takes so much strength
thank you I definitely had to fight the urge all night it was rough I cried for a couple of hours but I didnt give in😊