a few months ago a guy that i had talked with quite a while blocked me with no explanation. he was the first guy i took with me home and he also met my father(which is rare), he was my first kiss and he made me realize what ive been missing out onš„±. he was 3 years older and we both knew it was gonna be a problem, but we still dated in private. i still cant get over him and i think i never will after everything he did. he recently added me on snap and i added him back after a week to ask him what was going on, he said "nothing special" and i just answered with a simple "ok" before i removed him again. cause i gave him ONE chance to explain himeself and he didnt. but he still didnt give up, he added me again but i dont dare add him back. i just want to find somebody better or atleast get over him before i freak out. thanks for listening.
Last updated on:2026-07-23T20:41:12+05:30
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the hardest part was accepting that i wanted an explanation more than i wanted the person back. when someone gets a chance to talk and says ānothing special,ā that tells you a lot. protect the part of you that cared so deeply.
when he added you again, did you feel like you wanted him back, or were you hoping heād finally give you the closure he never gave before
i dont think i want him back anymore, i just want an apology and an explanation so that i can move on.
my first real connection too, the person who met my family and made me feel chosen, then disappeared like it meant nothing. that kind of silence stays with you for a while
wow you are soo strong for not adding him back unfortunately people will use you then drop you when they get or dont get what they want its important you dont make it easy for them . so proud of you