yesterday a thing happend to me..a guy on an online platform tried to harass me like in a sexual way...that was so bad I got caught up in this I got a little nervous and instantly thought of him for protection...although I didn't break no contact and talked to the admins of that group instead...My brain still searched him for safety..I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing..
I still cry when I talk about things..so I have decided I will not talk about stuff with my friends again..I'll not ask for him or search for him and if I get anxious I'll deal with it myself..I mean I have to right..there's no other way...
I feel sad ofc not always but yeah sometimes I do..maybe I need a routine..yeah I do..I'll try to make one and follow it now my periods are over and moreover I wonder if he's ever gonna come back...although I shouldn't think that way because he clearly said he doesn't want to be with me..I feel so sad like in the end I got nothing...instead of pain..I wonder if it will get better someday..
writing here helps a little from all the things...Wishing you all support :)
Last updated on:2026-09-12T07:03:54+05:30
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When someone breaks up with me, I tell myself that it was God's way of telling me that person wasn't right for me. After my last breakup, I was diagnosed with severe anxiety. I started taking meds and my life is so much better now. You will get through this. Focus on yourself and doing things that make you happy. Don't cry over someone who is not crying over you. ❤️🩹
Thank you ❤️
That is the saddest thing ever. He was always my protector in any situation. Now I have to do things by myself. I feel like a kid again in a big scary world without him.
yeah same..it's just sad..
Don't think of it as a big, scary world. Think of it as a new adventure!
on and off for 3-4 years, broke no contact each time during these period. stupidest mistake each time breaking no contact but I kept doing it. currently on day 48, and still tempted and I think bout the intimacy with him all the time esp when I’m alone. but with the app, it’s easier to countdown, and I’m determined to let this run forever. day infinity and beyond!!
yes let's do it!
same I’ve only been in no contact for 7 days all I think of is him the intimacy . I’m so tempted to send a msg. I’m hoping I can go to 30 days with no contact
@cookie yesss!! we got this!!
@WooGlee936 when u’re tempted to break no contact, look up this app, it really helps. you got this!!!!!
I am on day 405. You can do this!
@Unhealed that's over a year. How do you feel
@Unhealed wow that’s my goal! yeahhh how do u feel? I am curious too.
@NeonCrest828 finally happy again!
@BrightPath116 I got my happy back! No contact is absolutely the way to go. You can't heal if you keep getting sucked back in.
i’m glad you didn’t break no contact and found another way to feel safe. i’ve learned that needing comfort doesn’t mean you have to go back to the person who hurt you.
thank you I'll remember this
after my breakup i had a scary moment and my first instinct was still to reach for him, even after everything. my brain knew better, my heart didn’t catch up yet
so I guess it's totally normal...
when you thought of him for protection, was it more because you missed him or because he used to make you feel safe during scary moments?
he used to make me feel safe
now I think he is going to forget about me