Why did she break up with me?

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Hi everyone, she broke up with me 4 days ago saying that I was no longer her safe space after an argument, that she was not ready to be in a relationship, she dont have thé same feeling for me she had before ect . And today I found out / saw a story where she was sleeping on a video call with a 'friend' she told me not to worry about. The story was 3 weeks old, so we were still together at that point. I'm so angry.

Last updated on:2026-07-29T23:06:12+05:30

Comments (6)

Diamonds24
Diamonds24 2 mths ago

myself be angry without chasing every missing detail, because that rabbit hole kept reopening the wound for me. you’re allowed to feel betrayed.

BigBird
BigBird 2 mths ago

finding out things after my breakup that made me question every conversation we had. that anger hits different when it feels like the story you were given wasn’t the whole truth.

saplash16
saplash16 2 mths ago

i can imagine how confusing this feels, especially with the timing of that story. when you saw it, did it feel more like the call itself hurt, or that she told you not to worry about this person?

ByteFlick505
ByteFlick505 2 mths ago

to be honest both she didn't have Time for me but she had Time for him i confronted her about it but she is not gonna answer me

FrostJet725
FrostJet725 2 mths ago

That must have been really hard. I hope you are OK?

ByteFlick505
ByteFlick505 2 mths ago

to be honest im angry but now i know the truth so ill stop caring about her and focus on myself thank you