I feel like I need one last conversation about it. I wanna hear how he feels. I texted him right after our break up saying my goodbyes but he only liked my message. I need more.
Last updated on:2026-08-02T03:30:12+05:30
Why can't i move on without closure?
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i kept chasing closure too, but what finally helped me was accepting that silence was an answer, even though i hated it at first.
that little message reaction would mess with my head too. 😔 do you feel like you want to hear how he feels, or are you hoping he'll say something that changes how this ended?
I just wanna know how he is doing. I sent that last message but he didn’t. I really needed that one last message from him.
i spent weeks believing one last conversation would finally settle everything, but i realized i was hoping he'd give me peace he didn't even have himself.
i felt like i needed closure to, so i sent him a message and asked for more of a reason on why it happened. from it i learned, no matter what you ask him, i think it’s best for yourself to refrain from breaking it and messaging him. new questions will come and hope can build up until you want nothing more than your person. think about what he would say and let yourself float in some alternate reality, but you need to then pull yourself out and realize that there are so many and maybe too many things that could happen. so let it go. give it time. cry all you need and make up situations, but you need to understand losing yourself in a game of tug-of-war won’t be worth it in the end, even if you won. i wish you the best in this battle.
I understand why you feel good to get that closure. But even after he answers you and gives you a little bit of information, you will still come up with more questions and you will go into a spiral and you will still want more. No matter what he tells you it will never be enough even though it feels like every piece of information could be the last thing to help you heal and understand.
honestly I don’t know if it will help. I tried that got greeted with cruelty or no reply at all. each relationship is different I know. but I now feel more empty and heartbroken than ever. I think in some cases we just don’t get closure.
Yeah, its definitely possible he would just ignore me and that would hurt even more