so i broke up with this guy because i lost my feelings for him and i had been thinking abt breaking up for awhile and when i did it he replied “oh ok thats fair i think” and idk i wrote this whole ass paragraph bc i didnt wanna be mean abt it ill put i here its translated so if its spelled wrong thats why (u dont have to read it) “I think we should break up. It’s not your fault—I just have way too much going on to be in a relationship. I’ve been training a lot, and I’ll be training even more after summer break. My older brother is also going to be home more, and I’d really like to spend more time with him.
I don’t know if you’ve noticed that I’ve been a bit more distant lately, but it’s because I’ve lost my feelings. I’m really sorry, and I hope this doesn’t make you too upset. I know this probably isn’t something you want to hear while you’re in Sweden, but I’ve been thinking about it for a few days now.
I’m sorry. I really hope we can still be friends. 🤍.
i found out today that he smoked 3 cigarettes and looked really sad and he approximately smokes 1 a month and idk but i really regret breaking up because i hate making people sad i wish i didn’t lose my feelings idk what to do help me!
Last updated on:2026-08-02T05:27:12+05:30
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i feel for both of you. i would've wanted to take all their pain away too, but staying with someone because i couldn't stand their sadness would've ended up hurting us both even more.
that's such a heavy place to be. do you miss HIM, or does seeing how sad he is make you wish you hadn't caused that pain?
i've been the one who ended things too, and seeing how much it hurt them made me question EVERYTHING. i had to remind myself that feeling guilty isn't the same as wanting the relationship back.
omg finally someone who gets me and thank you so so much
whatever you do, dont use him to help ease your feelings of guilt for hurting him. Let him go, dont offer friendship and let him heal anyway he wants to. Youve lost feelings so dont breadcrumb him. Let him move on.
thanks girll😘