I never thought I would have the strength I’m showing lately. This app actually helped me go no contact for real this time; something I never thought I could do.
He messaged me on and off on the weekend, deleted some messages too. I wanted to hear his voice, to ask him if he wants me again- if he’s ready for the commitment I’m asking for. I never responded. Not because I hate him, or because I don’t want him- but because I won’t survive another breakup like this. If he wants me he’ll tell me the things I need to hear and make the commitments I need to even try rebuild, but he hasn’t and he probably won’t.
I love him with my whole heart- but I won’t let him destroy me again.
Sincerely
AllAlone
Last updated on:2026-08-04T00:40:47+05:30
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when he deleted those messages, do you think he was actually trying to rebuild something, or was it the same back and forth that kept pulling you in before?
Everything in me wants to believe he wants to rebuild something but he’s so smart and so charming and if he truly wanted to be with me he wouldn’t be half-assing or making small talk. It’s just to pull me back in, not because he’s changing his behaviour or feeling sorry about all he’s done. :(
this honestly made me smile a little. ❤️ i remember staring at my phone every time my ex popped back up, hoping THIS time the words would finally be different. choosing no contact when you still love them is one of the hardest things i ever did.
I want to express my admiration for your strength in stepping back from such a situation and choosing to walk away. You possess a deep understanding of your worth and recognize that you don’t want to endure that pain again. ❤️