Why am i struggling more after my breakup?
I’ve been trying to get back on track but honestly it’s been getting more difficult instead of easier. I’m back to crying all the way home every day. I’m so on edge and triggered all the time.
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Why did i give in again?
I sent him a picture of a note with an I love you that he wrote me about a year and a half ago. Don’t know what I wanted but I got a very cold “donno how to respond” attitude. fuck it man I ju
Why am i still dreaming of him after our breakup?
I’ll mourn and cry for days and days and then I’ll start to feel a bit better. The escalation and official breakup was like a month and a half ago. He wasn’t nice to me. His messages after weeks
Have you tried these unhinged breakup distractions?
I’m not asking about positive affirmations or taking a painting class. I’m talking about the most unhinged, insane ways you’ve distracted yourself and helped heal from this kind of despair. I’
Why do i feel so stupid after our breakup?
He asked for something of his back and I responded so nicely, said I’m not ready to give anything back right now and he was such an asshole about it. Wtf is wrong with me. I don’t even think I hav
Why i'm finally going no contact after my heartbreak
I never thought I would have the strength I’m showing lately. This app actually helped me go no contact for real this time; something I never thought I could do. He messaged me on and off on the we
Why i had to let go of the love of my life
I posted recently that I’m only in no contact because I had no other choice. Today, however, I got a half-hearted congratulations on a post I shared; half-hearted in the sense that this was the love
Why do i feel like i'm waiting for him to reach out?
It feels like none of my progress counts. How can I celebrate “no contact” days as progress when the truth is I’m just waiting for him to reach out first? I’m not doing any of this willingly.
Why do little things trigger my breakup grief?
The weirdest things trigger me. I’ll be fine and an unrelated scene in a movie, or song or picture or a thought will just knock the wind out of me. I spend a lot of time actively trying to ignore
Why does my heart feel like a stomach ache?
It isn’t getting easier for me. The worst though, is the stomach ache I’ve started getting. I went to the doctor- bloods are fine. It gets worse as the day goes on, and if there’s a moment I’m
Why do i dream about him every night?
My ex dumped me in stages. I never cared much for all of the overused psycho-babble terms but I do feel like avoidant discard sums it up pretty well. The silence is so loud. I check my phone every t