I didn't treat him right in first 3 months of the relationship. We've been together almost 2 years and today ( fee days after break up) he said he started to love me less because I killed sweet version of him at the begining. How to stop regretting that I could have treated him better. The mayby he would be with me now...
But the fact is that he doesn't want to try anymore
Last updated on:2026-08-04T21:58:39+05:30
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did he ever tell you how hurt he was back then, or is this the first time he's put all of that on those first few months?
he didn't tell me
i know that "maybe if i'd done this differently" loop.
i carried that same guilt after my breakup, replaying every mistake like if i'd just loved better we'd still be together. then i realized i was acting like those first few months erased the almost two years that came after, and that's just not how love works.
forgive yourself for something that only time can tell ^^ the good relationship when both can forgive each other’s and address the issues together. You might made a mistake, but he also played part for not forgiving and forgetting you.
It’s not only your fault, but he chose not to repair together with you. Respect his decision and this time, respect yours too