We originally called to get things sorted out such as emails, passwords, and photos deleted. It was hard but I deleted everything. We talked about our futures and genuinely had a good conversation. We also talked about the things that made us grow apart. She told me that she is really happy with her new boyfriend and as much as it hurt me to hear I genuinely don’t want to ruin that for her. Last time I was told by many people including her that she hides her emotion well so I honestly take what I to the chin because I’m not good at knowing the truth behind what someone tells me. She said things that boosted my ego but I still felt bad deep down. I guess it’s the fact that she was actually able to move on. I know I will but that feeling is bittersweet. I guess sitting here and having the slimmer of hope that she will see what she lost is out the window. I have to just get to know other people and ultimately close that chapter in my life. I thought I was doing good until I heard her voice. She told her boyfriend wwe had a long conversation which I understand and he doesn’t want her talking to me for good. So she had to block my number but she unblocked me on social media. In my eyes it’s genuinely over though my sister told me that if a girl calls her ex and tells him things she doesn’t want her boyfriend to know then obviously she is suppressing her feelings but I don’t know how true that is. My ex even told me that today she doesn’t know if she sees a future with me anymore, I corrected her and said to stop lying and she completely doesn’t. She responded with I couldn’t say that because I don’t know what God has in store for us showing her uncertainty. It’s too many dips and turns in this situation and it’s exhausting. I just want this all to be over and find someone who will change my life. What do I even do anymore?
Last updated on:2026-08-04T20:52:12+05:30
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believing what my ex actually did instead of trying to decode every mixed message. blocking my number, being with someone else, all of that hurt like hell, but it gave me something solid to stand on when my mind wanted to chase hope.
if she never contacted you again from this point on, what do YOU think you'd need to finally let yourself stop waiting for a different ending?
Not sure what you meant by meet someone that will change your life. You already are. It's great you got to talk. My ex ghosted me real bad. But you should end it for good. If possible meet up one last time for closure.
having one last "good" conversation with my ex and i walked away thinking every kind word meant there was still a chance. i kept reading between the lines for months, but i was only keeping myself stuck