Why can't i stop overthinking him with someone else?

All I can think about is him with the new girl. Being sexually intimate with her and doing everything he did with me with her. I just want him back so so much and it’s eating me alive. For some reason, I’m just so mad at the girl. I know she didn’t do anything and it’s him I should be mad at, but I just can’t. This isn’t fair and I pray he returns to me

Last updated on:2026-08-07T05:08:12+05:30

Comments (6)

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 2 wks ago

maybe the thoughts of him being with someone else can fuel thoughts of hatred towards him? you deserve better than someone who can easily move on to someone else. You dont want sloppy seconds, you are worth so much more

Yak3192
Yak3192 3 wks ago

i've been exactly where you are, making myself sick picturing my ex with someone else. those thoughts felt so real that i forgot they were just ripping ME apart, not changing anything.

wingJen71
wingJen71 3 wks ago

being weirdly angry at the new girl too, even though she hadn't done anything. i finally stopped fighting myself over it and just admitted i wanted him back.

cerealkilla80
cerealkilla80 3 wks ago

let her have him I promise no man or woman are worth your tears and the ones that are won't make you cry

tracy256
tracy256 3 wks ago

hey I think it’s okay to be angry and jealous because this is a person you shared everything with … but at one point acceptance helps if you really want to heal convince your kind he is gone and he chose to love another girl… I have been in the same exact situation with my baby daddy for the past two years hoping for a different results but I realized earlier this month that I was just breaking my own heart being angry … thinking of what he does with the new girl … and literally he cared less wether am hurting wether I cried so I have been just avoiding to do the work to heal my self and I just chose to heal my self and let them be …..

GloomyPine
GloomyPine 3 wks ago

has he actually moved on with someone new, or is your mind filling in the blanks because you miss him so much?