Why i can't stop missing you after the breakup

i miss you so much. so many times i wanted to just text you and call you. youre my best friend. my life feels so empty without you. i dont know if i can keep on going.

i hate myself for having this anxious attachment. i wish i could just get rid of it. so i can be the person you wanted me to be.

Last updated on:2026-09-10T10:44:54+05:30

Comments (6)

Contract2
Contract2 2 wks ago

when you say “i don't know if i can keep on going,” do you mean you're thinking about hurting yourself or ending your life right now?

SparkyDash401
SparkyDash401 2 wks ago

somewhat but i know i wont do it for the sake of my family

Dizzyrose
Dizzyrose 2 wks ago

i had to become less needy, less emotional, less me just to make someone stay, and that mindset broke me more than the breakup did.

SparkyDash401
SparkyDash401 2 wks ago

i can relate to that 😔 i hope you are feeling better each day with no contact 🫶

notanyone69
notanyone69 2 wks ago

that feeling of wanting to text your best friend so badly while knowing you probably shouldn't is brutal. i used to hate myself for being anxious too, and i wish i'd known back then that needing reassurance didn't make me unlovable

SparkyDash401
SparkyDash401 2 wks ago

we are lovable just the way we are and we deserve reassurance ❤️