Went through a breakup right when i started driving and then i was alone with myself all the time and at first i was quiet but then i started singing in the car and then i started talking to myself and i think ive gotten to know myself and im so greatful i was alone for that time because i don’t think i would have ever stopped and just talked to myself which sounds crazy but its so important. Since talking to myself im more silly and goofy and i smile and i have fun and i dont rely on other people i just have fun all the time. Now i think ill never find someone else fun to be with who is like me with myself. I have fun.
Last updated on:2026-09-10T05:52:24+05:30
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I heard talking to yourself can heal your inner child as well ^^ It is actually a self affirmation. I am happy that you slowly figure out that you only need yourself 💗
this is actually so beautiful. i started doing little things alone after my breakup too, and eventually i stopped waiting for someone else to make my days fun. having that kind of relationship with yourself is something i really hope you never lose.
i love how you said you’re scared you’ll never find someone as fun to be with as you are with yourself. do you think you’d want a partner to match that version of you, or would you be happy just letting someone add to a life you already love?
definetly someone who matches that i love that kind of fun personality
honestly, the quiet after a breakup taught me things about myself i never would’ve learned otherwise. i used to feel weird talking to myself too, then i realized i was actually becoming someone i genuinely enjoyed being around.
This is actually beautiful. ❤️ Sometimes a breakup forces us to discover a version of ourselves we didn’t know existed. The fact that you’ve learned to enjoy your own company is a huge step. But I’m curious if your ex came back genuinely wanting to rebuild things, would you still want that, or have you reached a point where you’d rather keep moving forward?
i would be friends with him but things are really hard because we were long distance. he is moving to my city next year and i would be his friend but i don’t think i could ever be with him again.