ive never tried so hard to change myself for anyone else. only for you. and yet youre the only one who has ever said that theyre deeply disappointed in me. ive never felt so unloved. i feel like im a damaged person who doesnt deserve love.
Last updated on:2026-09-10T18:17:45+05:30
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changing little pieces of myself because i thought if i became better, they’d finally love me the way i needed. hearing “i’m deeply disappointed in you” after giving someone EVERYTHING can make you question your whole worth.
it hurt so much when i heard that 😢 it still hurts...
i remember feeling like every mistake i made became proof that i was hard to love, and it took me a long time to stop seeing myself through my ex’s eyes. i still think about how much of myself i was willing to change just to feel chosen.
i can relate to that so much 😢 it damaged my self esteem. i hope time heals us 🫶
that “i’m a damaged person who doesn’t deserve love” part really hurts to read. when you think about everything you changed for them, do you feel like you were becoming someone you wanted to be, or someone you hoped would finally be enough for them
both but the changes i did just to please him were way more 😔
its so true thats so toxic...