So I recently talked to this boy again who had assaulted me a few years ago because he wanted to apologise we've been talking back and forth occasionally we were going to meet up at the park last night from 7 - 8pm - he suggested this (my parents were okay with it) but then he kept on making excuses that he had a few jobs to do around his house so I said "okay come to the park when you finish" so I was waiting and it then just got too late (darkness) so i said "i cant go out now its way too dark" and he was persistent saying it wasnt even late, my mum told me it wasnt safe out/too dark at this time and I agreed (she wouldn't have even let my sister out either - age 22) anyways he carried on being persistent i kept saying no over and over again he then got annoyed at me saying I lied to him that I was going out (but I didnt...) he then said "this is the last chance you'll get you'll never see me again" at this point I didnt care. Then I went to have dinner i told my sister about it, and she was very protective she said that if i had gone out she would've called our brother to come home and they would've been like at least 10 feet behind us so he wouldn't do anything to me which I really appreciate. Fast forward to this afternoon he goes to ask me "where does your ex-gf live, does she live in the village" im saying no and that it doesnt matter where she lives, he's then again being persistent begging me for her address begging me for her number and what she looks like what her name is etc (bc he wants to date her, even though she has a bf...) Look, YES SHE'S MY EX. But I will NOT allow any of that!! It's literally h*rr*ssment. I will protect her as much as I possibly can especially from him, plus she is very aware of what he had done to me and hates him too. Like im sorry but wtf.. (this is all bc I said i couldn't go out bc it was too dark btw...) I told her friend about this earlier and she agrees that this is disgusting. He then carried on with this for about 3 1/2 hours trying to get me to give out my ex-girlfriends information so he can "do things to her/with her and get to know her" like wtf no.
Last updated on:2026-09-16T01:55:03+05:30
Comments (5)
block him he's a narcissist and will only bring you pain and misery
i feel like the biggest thing here is that you don’t owe him access to you or your ex-gf. i’d keep every message, stop giving him information, and tell your family what’s happening because his behavior has gone way past an awkward conversation.
are you and your ex-gf somewhere safe right now, and is there someone you trust who knows what he’s been saying?
yes we are, im sure she is as well i let her friend know about what happened and she said there shouldn't be anything to worry about as all he knows is her pronouns and that could literally be anyone in the world so I hope nothing happens im sure it wont but at the same time we cant be so sure
i’ve been around someone who kept pushing past my “no” too, and that feeling of realizing they don’t respect a boundary is genuinely scary. you did the right thing staying home, especially after he kept pressuring you in the dark.